Thursday, August 25, 2022

Community, Part 7: The Genuine Article

 

Hey, Cobblestone,

     Authenticity is valued, like gold, precisely for its rarity. If gold were lying about like so much quartz or granite, married people wouldn’t be so excited about putting bands of it around their left ring fingers. Likewise, examples of the genuine article in any desirable category will take some looking to find.

     By sheer use of the word “community” in conversation, it appears nearly everybody is looking for it. By sheer number of us still looking, it appears not many are finding. Or maybe many are finding, but the community we find lacks the essential ingredients, and there’s little satisfaction in being a member. A fairly accurate representation of a Big Mac can be had for a relatively small investment, but the Big Mac community isn’t one most folks would want to pledge their heart and soul to. And yet, “community” gets tossed about as if it can be had with a click, tap, or swipe.

     Where does authenticity play into the idea of community? I would say it’s an essential ingredient. If members of a given community can fool most of each other most of the time, I would say true community does not exist among them. If pretending is easy, it’s not community.

     I was put in charge of a bachelor party some years back. My only qualification for the job was the bride’s notion that the groom stood the best chance of staying out of serious trouble if I was running the show. Not saying her notion was correct, but because I love the bride very much, I took the assignment. We went to an arcade. They booted us out at 11pm. What? No, we didn’t get into trouble; one of our party was under 21, and 11pm started alcohol-serving time. In an arcade. I didn’t ask why. Out of the frying pan, we jumped into a large mall with three themed clubs under one roof. Standing in the corridor, all three clubs were line-of-sight.

     To the left was a surfer club. People were dressed for the beach – with no beach within several hundred miles. Legitimacy was based on the best imitation of Frankie Avalon and/or Annette Funicello. Surfboards were screwed to the walls because nobody was actually surfing. To the right was a honky-tonk. People were dressed for a cattle drive – in Cincinnati. Legitimacy was based on who wore the biggest belt buckle, or maybe who could stay on the mechanical bull the longest. Harness and tack adorned the walls. No horses, but lots of harness and tack. And straight ahead – honestly, I don’t know what the clubbers were doing, but it looked painful. People were dressed for the zombie apocalypse, though I couldn’t have said which side they’d have been on. Legitimacy was based on… um, your guess is as good as mine. The walls, best I could tell, were for banging one’s head into.

     Though there were a couple close calls, we managed to spend thirty minutes or so in the honky-tonk without getting into a fight. (The winner of the bull session, by the way, was a shirtless drunk dude; the loser was a gal who probably needed medical attention but didn’t ask for it.) The lasting impression was how artificial the whole arrangement was. I’m guessing nobody went to work Monday morning in Friday night costume and character.

     If pretending to be a disciple of Jesus is as easy as pretending to be a surfer or cowboy or head-banger, maybe it’s not the genuine article we’re trying to imitate.

     In the opening verse of 1Corinthians 11, Paul says, Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ. In reading the whole letter, you’ll notice that he had spent most of the first ten chapters allowing his authenticity to be tested:

    For Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel, and not with words of eloquent wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power (1Corinthians 1:17).

    And I, when I came to you, brothers, did not come proclaiming to you the testimony of God with lofty speech or wisdom. For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. And I was with you in weakness and in fear and much trembling, and my speech and my message were not in plausible words of wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power, so that your faith might not rest in the wisdom of men but in the power of God (2:1-5).

     As we bring the idea of community into sharper focus, and work toward an accurate definition, please know this: the community of Christian faith, in all its local manifestations, has a commodity that the world desperately needs: the peace of Christ.

    “Peace I leave with you,” (Jesus said), “my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid” (John 14:27).

     There is a peace that is infinitely more than the absence of conflict, immeasurably better than getting our way. On Jesus’s promise, there is a peace that is capable of keeping our hearts from being troubled or afraid, and he gives it. The church’s job is threefold as it relates to the peace Jesus gives: receive it, act on it, and invite into it others who don’t have it yet. Authenticity is the best way to make the invitation.

     Jesus peace isn’t shaken by news cycles, the stock market, changing social norms, or… whatever.

    “Why are you afraid,” (Jesus asked his disciples on the stormy Galilean sea), “O you of little faith?” (Matthew 8:26). Why, indeed? They hadn’t yet received his peace. But once they had, they were able, like Paul, to endure whatever it took to prove they were following the real Jesus, not a preconceived notion of Messiah.

     “When you are keeping your head when all about you are losing theirs,” the old saying goes – you must not know what the heck is really going on. Oops, nope, that wasn’t the one I was looking for! Let me try again…

     I’ve thought for a long time that Paul’s challenge to the Corinthians, to be imitators of him as he was of Christ, was mighty audacious of him. On closer inspection, I think it shows an audacious trust in the Lord. Romans 8:29 says, For those whom (God) foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son. Being conformed doesn’t get much favorable press these days, but when the pattern is Jesus, it’s far and away the best thing that can happen to us, and makes for the best witness to authentic community – among ourselves and to the world.

      

Grace and Peace (without need for pretense),

 

John 

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